A sad note today: amongst the joys in the world are surely its sorrows. In memory of Denise Reaves Kirby, age 46, of Oxford, Alabama...to some just an obituary in the newspaper, but to me the death of a precious friend. Denise was a just under 5-foot-tall ball of energy the first time I met her at the age of 17. This hilarious tiny little thing was driving her mom's car, what type I do not remember, but its size I do. The contrast in Denise's size in this huge vehicle only added to my amusement. She was funny, bright and could be mischevious, if the mood struck her. As she got older and married, born to her were two sons, now aged 17 and 13. They were her light.
Denise lost her battle with a disease she fought for years - rheumatoid arthritis. Yet, it was a drug used to treat it that caused her immune system to fail to do its job and caused us to lose her far too early - the same drug that almost took my mom's life a few years ago. So, as I pray for her boys as they struggle to go on without their mom, I pray for a cure - a way to treat this nasty disease in a safer way. And, as the sun rises here without her, I know that God sits and giggles at this tiny little lady who entered His gates. Heaven must be having fun with Denise today. I know I sure did.
Wednesday, July 9, 2008
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Hello,
This is Austin Kirby, Denise's oldest son. I was just wondering who posted this. I enjoyed reading it, as it brought back many memories of a great friend, sister, and mother. Thank you,
Austin.
Not sure who left this sweet tribute to my sister Denise, but you knew her well.... she was a giant ball of fire and full of life... and yes her boys Austin now 19 and Ryan 15, wonderful boys I know she is so proud of them, just as I am..... We all miss her beyond words and think of her every single day that passes.. She was not just my sister, but my best friend in the world... I still want to call her everyday, every time I want to share happiness, sadness or everyday problems of life...although I know she is at peace now and with God...and I am thankful for that , she is missed terribly...I know that she is with Kirby my daughter, my cousin Kim, whom we also lost way to early and miss so much...grandparents and other friends she is missed her on earth but her memory will be with us always... I love you Denise and think of you every day that passes... May heaven be brighter with you ball of light and fire....
Love always,,
Kris
Austin and Kris,
I am Lisa Creel Wesson, formerly from the Anniston area. Austin, I used to see you and your brother when you were little guys! Your mom and dad even babysat for my husband and I one night. When you brother was at St Mark Mom's Day Out, my son was there, too, and your mom and I would chat forever. I loved Denise very much. I met her when she was about 16 years old and I was about 17. Cindy (Seeger) Evans introduced me to her because she and I were friends. We would all hang out together in the parking lot at Piggly-Wiggly and Hardee's, of all places! Not a lot to do in Jacksonville as a teenager sometimes, so we'd sit and talk. Your mom was always full of energy, funny, and she was pretty tough, too. When she passed away, I was so sad that I could not attend her services. I live in South Mississippi now and couldn't get there. I can only imagine how much you and your brother have grown since I last saw you. One thing I do know is this: never did I talk to your mom that she did not glow with love and pride for her two sons.
Kris, I hope you are well. It has been many years since I have seen you. I don't know when the last time would have been. I can't imagine what it has been like to not have Denise there with you, but Denise was a believer and she is truly at peace, as you have said. I pray all is well with you and your family. Denise loved you so much. I don't ever remember a time when I talked with her that she didn't talk about you at some point. She loved you and cared about you that much.
Much love,
Lisa
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